One easy way to impress a woman is by reading her online dating profile and discovering what her favorite books are. She may have a few books that she loves, or she may have a lot. While her taste in books may vary and may also be completely different from yours, you should find at least one or two that seem interesting enough for you to read. Check the book out from your local library, buy them, or downloaded them as eBooks. You can do this before you start chatting with her or you can do it afterward. It really depends on you and what route you want to take to impress her.
Take a Chance
If a woman you are interested in online has a list of her favorite books you can try reading a few of them before you message her. While there’s nothing wrong with this option, you do run the risk of someone else getting to her before you can. However, when you go this route you can actually have something to talk with her about that other guys may not be able to.
Many times men send women typical messages such as asking them how they are doing or complimenting them on their physical appearance. These types of messages can become annoying to women. However, when your first message to her is about how you enjoy one of her favorite books, you will have already gotten the upper hand in the competition.
If you decide to message her after you have read her favorite books, make sure that your message asks her questions about what her favorite scenes from the book were and mention your own favorite scenes. The tone of your message should be excited to have found someone else who has read the book.
Give Yourself a Reason
If you do not want to risk someone else getting to her before you do, your initial message can ask her about the books that she has read. You can ask it which book is her favorite and which was she will recommend for you to read. You need to sound like you have a real interest in the books that the two of you are talking about. Let her know that you will read the books and ask her if you can discuss them with her after you have read them. She will probably think that you won’t read them, but you can surprise her by messaging her later on to let her know that you have read them. She’ll be impressed that you actually took the time to read the books and she’ll be honored and excited that you want to discuss them with her.
Once the two of you are talking about books, ask her where she typically gets her books. If the two of you seem like you may be hitting it off, try to convince her to go for a coffee date with you at a bookstore. You will make yourself stand out among the other men who are vying for her attention for sex and nothing more. If she feels like you appreciate a good book, she may be quicker to respond to you and your advances than to other men who do not have an interest in literature.