When you are meeting online, there are quite a few ways you can have a conversation. This is through chat rooms, instant messages, emails and even through webcams. Of course, each of these ways of communicating has advantages and disadvantages you can cash in on. If you are thinking about chatting through your webcam, you are going to want her put on a show for you. She is going to expect this, and she may even get excited about doing it for you, but if you come at her the wrong way, she will be turned off from the idea. The best way to excite her about the idea of putting on a show for you is to not do it the first time you talk. Instead, steer the conversation towards sex and ask her if she has ever done something like this before. This will put you in the best possible decision for getting a great show.

Don’t Try It the First Conversation

The kiss of death for most women who might be inclined to give you a show on the first conversation is when you come right out and ask to get a show. If it is in her mind to give you a show, she will suggest it. You will not have to ask. Even if you are thinking about asking for it at some point, do not even joke about it. If she talks about it, it is one thing. If you talk about it even jokingly, she will know it is on your mind and she will not want to do it.

Steer the Conversation towards Sex

Once you have had at least one discussion, you can start steering the conversation towards sex. The more you are talking about sex and what turns the two of you on, the more she is going to get turned on. Just like when a girl is thinking about having sex with you because she is turned on, turning her on before asking to get a show is the best way you can be assured she will be more likely to do it. Do not be obvious about what you are looking to accomplish or you will turn her off. Remember, subtlety is sexy.

Ask If She Has Done This Before

As the conversation is steering towards doing a show for you, ask if she has ever done anything like this before. Make sure you are showing her you’re not assuming she does this kind of thing all the time. By doing so, she will feel comfortable and sexy, rather than judged and demeaned.

Never make an assumption she will be giving you a show, or she will be upset you are even daring to ask her such a thing. Once you have opened the door to web shows, she will be more likely to do them again for you in the future. Just don’t ask for them every time or she will feel as if you are using her.