Depression comes in many different shapes and forms and sometimes you may meet a woman who is depressed, but you won’t be able to tell. While depression is one of those types of illnesses that can be treated, if you’re looking to actually enjoy the relationship that you’re in, regardless of what type of relationship it is, you should avoid dating someone with depression. It doesn’t matter how hot she is or how normal she seems. When you meet someone who is clinically depressed, having any type of relationship with her is just a bad idea and almost always fails.
You Can’t Make Her Happy
It doesn’t matter what you do how long you do it, you are never going to please her. Something is always going to be wrong. We are not saying that it will be your fault, but you will start to feel inadequate when you date a woman with depression. For whatever reason, even when you are giving her everything that she has ever wanted, it is just impossible to keep a smile on her face. When a woman is like that every day, off and on or all the time, it starts to make you feel like doing anything with her or for her is pointless. Not only that, but the longer her depression lasts the more you start to lose interest in her and stop being attracted to her.
You can talk to her about all her issues and her problems, and you can try to help her fix them, but nothing you do will ever be good enough. She may ask you for help, but she won’t really want it.
You Will Resent Her
Dealing with women with depression really can bring out the worst in you. You will find yourself getting frustrated by just about everything she does or says. Sometimes she may randomly start crying, and times where you wanted to console her will be replaced with you wanting her to shut the hell up.
Another reason why you shouldn’t date a woman with depression is because she won’t take your feelings into consideration. After all, she can’t even handle her own. You will start to feel like you are the only person in the relationship and that you are the only person who gives a damn. If you’re expecting sex, you can pretty much forget about it. As a matter of fact, you probably won’t even want to have sex with her. If you don’t know what it’s like to have sex with someone who bursts out crying right in the middle of it, well… Trust us. You don’t want to find out.
Obviously, the decision to date a woman with depression is up to you. If you like a challenge, then go for it, but don’t be surprised when you want to end things just as quickly as you start them. Dating a woman with depression just leads to you feeling depressed just as she is. Do yourself a favor and find a woman whose mental illness is way more apparent, or one with no mental illness at all.