Using Vampire Gloves for the First Time
Vampire gloves can be pretty hot if you’re into the BDSM scene. Even if you’re not the kinkiest person out there, you can still get off using these gloves.
Their name is misleading, but only slightly. They are not in fact gloves that will bite your neck and drain you of your blood. Rather, they have sharp, pointy little spikes on them that will give a painful sensation. If you’re feeling like you’re down to get freaky with your lady tonight, then slip on a pair of vampire gloves and let the fun begin.
What Do They Do?
Vampire gloves aren’t meant to actually hurt someone. The spikes on the gloves are really small and on the palm part of your hand. It’s sort of like a leather glove had a bunch of staples put through it that didn’t bend in. The gloves are meant to be glided over different parts of the body at different pressures. Your partner will shudder at the touch of your hand, but not bleed. Vampire gloves are more of a sensory toy than anything else. Plus, they make you look really cool. Wear them with a pair of formfitting black pants, and your lady will think you’re something of a Christian Grey.
Talk It Out
The most important thing to do when you’re trying something new in bed is to ask your partner if it’s okay. These little prickers don’t look like they’d do much damage, but some people have sensitive skins or morals that might not make her the best candidate for the freaky stuff. If your lady seems unsure, then come up with a safe word together before you get started. An alternate to a safe word would be a slow word. Things like yellow, green, and red are the most common. Modeled after traffic lights they stand for “slow down, I’m reaching my threshold”, “Go, go, go,” and, the most obvious, “Stop, I’ve had too much, that hurts.” By far the most important thing to remember is that you’re playing with something that hurts, so don’t ignore your partner when she says stop.
Alternate Uses
Most manufacturers don’t recommend using vampire gloves for anything other than what they’re built for. But don’t let them ruin the fun. If the gloves have served their purpose and you and your woman really like them, then you can take it to a more extreme level. As mentioned the pinpricks won’t draw blood when they’re just gently being dragged on the skin. But if you push harder, you’ll produce scratches that resemble a cat’s. It’s more painful, but not so much as really hardcore punishments in the BDSM culture.
Feeling really kinky? Then try a little spanking. When you spank your woman (with her permission) little droplets of blood will be left where your fingers touched. It’s like a sexy little calling card every time she sits down. Who knows, if you’ve been a naughty boy she might return the favor.