Dating a Bisexual Woman: Not All Bisexuals Want a Threesome
If you are like most guys, the idea of dating a bisexual woman may seem pretty exciting to you. It can be a lot of fun, but you will have to play your cards right. After all, not every bisexual woman is looking to have a threesome with the guys they meet. Many simply get turned on by both men and women, but only want to be with one person at a time. Just like not all straight women want to have sex with two guys at once, not all bisexual women want a guy and a girl together. If you are thinking about trying to have a threesome with her, make sure it is an idea she gets turned on by, you have a plan in mind and you are making it clear it is just a way for you two to have more fun together. This will help you to have a threesome, but will not make her feel as if it’s the only reason why you are dating her.
See If Threesomes Turn Her On
If she is not turned on by having a threesome, your chances of getting her to agree to one are pretty slim. There may be a chance if you make her feel super comfortable with you she’ll agree to have a threesome, but for the most part, if she’s not going to get excited about being with two people, you can give up the conversation. To find out if she is turned on by it, just talk about it or perhaps ask her to watch some threesome porn with you. This can be very revealing.
Have a Plan in Mind
If she does say she might be interested in having a threesome, she will ask you what you want to do. Make sure you don’t gush as soon as you are asked and rattle off everything you want to do, but don’t make it seem as if you are struggling to come up with a plan. Instead, be the man and tell her what you want to do. Put some real thought into it and be realistic in how you will get the other girl so she is not doing all the work. This way, she’ll be more inclined to say yes.
Make It Clear You Want Her
At every turn, you need to make sure you are reassuring her just because you want a threesome, you do not want her any less. The threesome is just a way to make your sex life more fun, not a way for you to have sex with other women. Make this clear not only before you are seeking out the other women, but when you are finding another woman, by giving her the choice of which women to talk to. Also, when you are actually having the threesome, make sure you are paying more attention to your girl. She will have fun with the threesome and you will enjoy the fact you are with a bisexual woman who is letting you have a threesome.