Online dating is great because it allows us to talk to many different women at one time. People seem to be a lot more open when first meeting online and this allows us to be more comfortable with someone before we meet them in person. While online dating is definitely convenient, sometimes it has the tendency to backfire on us. Many of us find ourselves asking women questions that we wouldn’t normally ask them in person. If you are meeting women online, you can avoid any awkward situations or having her ignore you and your messages by making sure to never ask her these three questions when first chatting online.
Question Number One
The first question you should never ask a woman when chatting online is how much she weighs. Even if she looks thin, do not ask her this question. She will automatically feel like you are judging her, and she will think that you are shallow and not worth her time. You should also not ask her if you could guess her weight. To be on the safe side just do not talk about weight at all. It is a topic that you want to avoid altogether.
You should also avoid asking her any questions that deal with her physical appearance and body parts. For example, do not ask her if her breasts are real or what size bra she wears.
Question Number Two
The next question that you should never ask a woman when first chatting online is if she would be willing to get on Skype with you. This is an immediate red flag to just about all women. If you’ve seen her pictures, you already know what she looks like. Asking her to get on Skype with you before you even know her will guarantee that she will never message you back. She will think that you are predator, and she will probably block you from ever messaging her again. We know it seems a bit overboard, but trust us. Just stick to the back-and-forth of messages until she’s ready to get on Skype with you.
Do not give her some lame excuse as to why you prefer to use Skype because she will not care. She will not trust you and you will have ruined your chances of hooking up with her.
Question Number Three
The final question you should never ask a woman when first chatting with her is if you can come to her house. This question is fine to ask later down the line, but definitely not the beginning. Women are taught not to trust men, and when you ask to come to her house early on, she will think that you have bad intentions and most of the time she will stop talking to you. Even if you are on a sex website, you should refrain from asking to come to her house right away. Instead, let her lead the decision for you to join her at her house. She may prefer a hotel or something like that. If she does, make sure you do not come on too strong and do not nag her. She will let you know when she’s ready and if you play your cards right it won’t take long.